Exactly three months ago today, I was sitting in the OR having my guts rearranged like some freaky science experiment. I have been doing a lot of thinking about that today – first because I had to go and give my 17 vials of blood for post-op testing (have to be sure I’m getting enough nutrients) and also because as a historian I just can’t miss an opportunity to ponder the past. It has been an interesting ride since the surgery, to say the very least. Eating is now a daily chore, a source of fuel but rarely of enjoyment – which, I guess, is a good thing considering how much I relied on food as comfort and love pre-surgery.
One of the most interesting things that I have learned on my new journey towards becoming thin and healthy is that the bariatric surgery community is its own unique subculture, full of people who can openly share experiences that others won’t understand. The community even has its own distinct language. Vocabulary words like “pouch” (the new stomach formation) and “nut” (short for nutritionist) and “sliders” (foods that go down too easily and can cause overeating or lapses into old food habits) are just some of the new lexicon.
One of my favorite new phrases is “food porn.” I think this one actually should take off in the world at large, since every person I know has one or two food items that they would enjoy seeing made in a television show or a recipe online. It goes beyond a lukewarm “hey, I really like that _____ (fill in the food name here)” into a lustful, passionate, “oh my god I must have that NOW” sort of feeling. It’s the food that causes you to want to lick the television screen if you see a commercial for it.
Interestingly, I was very concerned before my surgery that this kind of food porn (especially with sweets – pies, cakes, cookies, etc.) would drive me absolutely insane. In the first few weeks after my surgery, during my recovery period at home when, at first I couldn’t drive (drugs were too good) and then later when there were few non-food events that I wanted to attend, food commercials and cooking shows DID drive me towards distraction – but NOT for the sweets. I could have cared less for all the wonderful Halloween candy commercials or Thanksgiving dessert shows. It was the protein sources that were and are the biggest cause of stress for. Outback Steakhouse commercials, for example, are especially painful. Sure, the other ‘junk’ I used to eat (donuts, pizza, mozzarella sticks) occasionally appear before me like the evil temptors that they are – but its the images of chicken, beef, and pork that haunt my days and nights.
In my usual contrary way, though, the Food Porn is what has kept me sane through the last 3 months. Nowadays, when I am feeling especially low, I will turn on a cooking show or desperately search the internet for a recipe. I don’t know if this is so I can pretend that I live a normal life again or if its simply some for of masochistic torture for my stomach. Whatever the psychology behind it, looking at food pictures and recipes fills some sort of need and keeps me from being one super-cranky bitch. So all of you who have to deal with me on a daily basis should really thank your lucky stars for the Food Network and those recipe websites!